1. Each time you textual content him, it ends in tears. Or stress. Or anger. Or disappointment. There’s no sense in going out of your technique to speak to somebody who isn’t rising to your expectations, who’s making you are feeling worse about your self as a substitute of higher. As a substitute of texting him, you must take a minute to consider whether or not the proper model of him in your head is something like the true life model of him. If he retains arising quick, then possibly you must cease chasing him.
2. He by no means texts you again inside an inexpensive period of time. He most likely can’t reply his texts at work. And he most likely has a thriving, busy life exterior of you. But when this isn’t the primary time he’s stored you ready for days, if his sudden disappearance isn’t a one-time factor, then there’s no level in double texting him. If he wished to speak to you, then he would speak to you. If he isn’t treating you as certainly one of his priorities, you then shouldn’t waste any extra of your time making an attempt to seize his consideration. Settle for his silence and transfer on.
three. He can by no means preserve a dialog going. Even whenever you ship him full paragraphs, he sends you one-word solutions,. Or he sends you emojis rather than precise phrases. You’ve tried your hardest to get conversations going, however he kills them inside seconds. Some persons are simply dangerous texters, but when that’s not the case, do you actually wish to date somebody you might have bother speaking to? Do you actually wish to preserve pursuing somebody who isn’t piquing your curiosity? Even when you find yourself deciding to ship him one other textual content, the convo isn’t going to final lengthy. You aren’t going to study way more about him.
four. The one factor he needs to speak about is intercourse. It doesn’t matter whether or not you begin the dialog out by speaking about work or your loved ones or your pets. Someway, he’ll discover a technique to reroute the dialog to intercourse. He appears extra involved with hitting on you than truly partaking in deep, significant conversations with you. The entire compliments may really feel flattering at first, but when he’s solely displaying curiosity in your physique, that’s most likely as a result of he needs to sleep with you, not date you.
5. He’s been posting freely on social media however hasn’t bothered to reply your newest texts. You shouldn’t need to beg for his consideration. If he has his cellphone on him and hasn’t been answering you, it’s tempting to textual content him once more (or submit a cute selfie to get his consideration). However you shouldn’t exit of your technique to get him to note you. You could have loads of different folks you may textual content. You could have loads of different boys you may pursue.
6. Texting him makes you sick. Not the great sort of butterflies-in-your-stomach sick. The dangerous type the place you’re overthinking what to say as a result of you may’t be your self round him. It’s regular to be nervous round a crush, however there’s no level in chasing after him in case you’re in no way comfy with him.