I’m not the identical lady who used to maintain quiet when somebody disrespected me. I’m not the identical lady who used to shrink into the background. I’m not the identical lady who used to get taken benefit of by individuals who did not see my value.
Now, I received’t hesitate to stroll out of your life in the event you harm me. I received’t do the ‘well mannered’ factor and preserve quiet if you make me really feel horrible about myself. I’m not afraid to talk my thoughts anymore. I’m not afraid to place different folks of their place. There’s no cause for me to play the good lady when persons are strolling over me with the expectation I’m not going to trigger a fuss about it. When you harm me, you’re going to listen to about it — otherwise you’re by no means going to listen to from me once more.
I’m not the identical lady who used to fret what different folks considered me. I’m not the identical lady who used to comply with the group. I’m not the identical lady who used to place my entire coronary heart and soul into becoming in with individuals who weren’t value my time within the first place.
Now, I don’t care what anybody thinks of me. I don’t care in the event you contemplate me egocentric or bitchy or unladylike. When you don’t like me, you then don’t should cope with me. It’s so simple as that. I’m not going to vary myself to slot in with the group. I’m not going to change my ideas and beliefs with a view to come throughout as extra likable. I now not stay to please different folks. It doesn’t make a distinction to me whether or not you approve of my choices so long as I’m assured I’m making the correct ones. I belief myself now greater than ever. I don’t want outdoors validation with a view to really feel worthwhile. I already really feel that method with out anybody else’s approval.
I’m not the identical lady who used to imagine every little thing I heard. I’m not the identical lady who used to blindly belief anybody who was good to me. I’m not the identical lady who thought one of the best of individuals, even after they’ve harm me time and time once more.
Now, I pay extra consideration to actions than phrases. I’m cautious about who will get let into my coronary heart. I’m cautious to not give out second probabilities to individuals who by no means deserved a primary likelihood. I nonetheless pleasure myself on being a sort individual, on spreading love and respect, however I’m now not prepared to spend time with individuals who carry me down. I’m now not affected person with individuals who deal with me like a punching bag and anticipate me to face there and take the abuse. I really like myself greater than ever, which implies I’m extra selective about who I let into my coronary heart than ever.
I’m not the identical lady you used to know. I’ve remodeled into somebody utterly new, somebody you won’t like as a lot however somebody I like a lot, rather more.