Rethinking Destiny And What’s Meant To Be

The opposite day I used to be actually moved by a narrative a seventy 12 months outdated lady informed me once I requested her how she and her husband obtained collectively. I requested her if their love story was destiny or ‘written within the stars’ since I generally tend to romanticize issues however I used to be shocked to study that their story was filled with obstacles and hurdles.

She informed me that each one the percentages have been towards them, their mother and father didn’t bless their marriage and didn’t approve of her husband. He was simply getting out of school and had no cash in any way to begin a household however she was satisfied that she couldn’t be with anybody else. They actually fought for his or her love and determined to get married anyway it doesn’t matter what it took or what number of bridges they burned. I later requested her if she had any regrets marrying him or if it will have been simpler selecting somebody her mother and father really permitted of, however she mentioned that the one choice she would have actually regretted shouldn’t be marrying him. She mentioned he was a dangerous selection however the only option. Fifty years later, they’re nonetheless in love and selecting one another each single day.

This story actually obtained me rethinking this complete concept of ‘meant to be.’ I’m a giant believer in destiny, timing and the way issues which are meant for you will see that you however I by no means thought of how ‘meant to be’ actually unfolds or the completely different shapes it might take.

Possibly ‘meant to be’ shouldn’t be a one-time factor, possibly it’s not all on the universe, possibly there’s a couple of ‘meant to be’ and so it turns into our selection. Possibly we even have a say in how this ‘meant to be’ performs out or within the course it takes.

As a result of what if what’s meant for you is true in entrance of you however you’re not doing something to know it, you’re not doing something to say it. Should you’re too complacent ready for the universe to align every part so completely earlier than you make your transfer, you’re ‘meant to be’ may elude you.

Possibly the universe’s job stops proper once they current us with what we have been on the lookout for after which it turns into our selection whether or not to take it or go away it. It turns into our job to decide on it and preserve selecting it time and again. Consider it as teamwork, not a one man’s job.

Possibly ‘meant to be’ doesn’t imply that the every part is completely aligned and the timing is nice and the circumstances are good, possibly it implies that every part is definitely removed from good however we’re selecting to struggle for it. We’re rolling with the punches as a result of we predict it’s value it. Possibly destiny brings us nearer to what we actually need effortlessly however there’s nonetheless a variety of effort we have to put in if we need to make it occur or make it ours.

Possibly ‘meant to be’ is one thing now we have to earn not one thing that simply falls into our laps.

I stored pondering what if that couple listened to their mother and father and gave up on one another or simply determined to take the simple manner out, how will their lives have turned out? Will they nonetheless be fortunately married at seventy or will they be depressing, at all times trying again on the one particular person they really needed however didn’t find yourself with?

Their story could also be an exception however it obtained me rethinking what ‘meant to be’ actually means, and it made sense, relationships should not straightforward they usually require a variety of self-discipline, dedication and energy to make them work or make them develop.

And whereas selecting to struggle for one’s lover, or be with somebody towards all odds, or stick with somebody when issues are removed from good will not be a traditional case of ‘meant to be,’ it’s nonetheless a robust story of dedication. A real story of selecting one another when you could possibly be with anybody else. And that beats any ‘meant to be’ in my e-book. It’s the epitome of true dedication. The epitome of real love.

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